I believe that the words FALLING IN LOVE and FALLING OUT OF LOVE are more than just mere reality. See, the best of couples who have been IN LOVE before have ended up falling / being out of love with the same person they were once head over heels in love with. This makes me wonder what kind of feeling they had when they first said they were IN LOVE. And for the many couples who are still IN LOVE after many many years, I also wonder what kind of feeling keeps them going, one that has ceased to exist in relationships where couples have broken their ties.
Sometimes I think that Love is the difference between a tired retreat to my bed at night, and an energetic jump from the same bed in the morning – 101% refreshed. The first time I heard the word ‘crush’ was in high-school. I remembered thinking it mean’t having an accident. I gave the girl who asked me if I had a crush on her a very bad look. I thought she mean’t me ill.
Then another person says infatuation is when your head is all blown up, and you begin to see stars on ground rather than in the skies.
How do you know when you are in Love with someone? this is an all too important question, with answers true, false, diverse, grossly misinterpreted, misunderstood and mistaken. I believe there should be a definite answer; a yes or no; a this or that; like the difference between black or white. And besides, even the professionals in the Love and Counselling zone always have different answers.
So here, I am asking: how do you know when you are in Love with someone?
How? what? when? where? which? What are the real signs? what are the vital signs? what did you feel when you realized you were in Love? goose bumps, pimples, stomach ache, diarrhea? what should someone feel for him / her to be convinced he/she in Love.
What can I(as a guy) see look out in her, that will inform me that she is in love with me. How is this applicable, vice-versa?
Lets do it like this: just help me complete this sentense:
You know you are in Love when….