I saw the Spartacus movie CD with a friend, and we got talking. He told me it was very interesting, in fact, his words were “very very very interesting”. Looking at the front and back covers, I thought t’was a war / action movie, so I decided to go get my own pirated copy. The […]
May 20, 2010
I heard on radio that Taio Cruz is of Nigerian origin, and since morning after searching his info out, Ive just fallen in love with the song below. Click to play. A little info about our brother: Cruz was born Adetayo Ayowale Onile-Ere in London, England, to a Nigerian father and a Brazilian mother. […]
May 12, 2010
I heard on radio last night that Lemar is of Nigerian origin, so I decided to check him out: Lemar on Wikipedia. I’m presently meditating on this one: If Theres Any Justice. "If There’s Any Justice" Ohhh, Ye-ah-ah, Yeah, I would be your man, You would be my girl, Oh yeah, I beleive, I […]
March 17, 2010
When you watch a move the second time, you might hear somethings you didn’t hear the first time you watched it. So I was ‘re-watched’ Casino Royale, yesterday night when a line rang a bell. Bond and his girl Vesper just met, were sizing up themselves. I don’t remember the exact lines, but Vesper said […]
March 1, 2010
Proverbs 18: v22 Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD The title of this post is a statement from someone who shared with me thoughts on his ‘married life’ over the weekend. According to him, if someone had asked him while he was a bachelor if he thought […]
February 19, 2010
I have argued with my mom several times, why the only thing she pressures my sister about is the idea of: Learning how to cook, cook, cook, as if woman-hood was synonymous with cooking. My mom makes this “you must know how to cook this and that” gospel look as if its the most important […]
February 6, 2010
I’m thinking some ladies are specialized in the art of making men wait – as in when she tells you over and over again: “give me some more time”. 3-months, 6-months, 9-months gone, and still she says: “give me some more time”. what do you advise this Romeo to do?
December 23, 2009
Here are some one-liners speaking about matters of the heart: Something easy is not always exciting. You are my heart. She is my inspiration. Marriage is like serving time in prison. There is no enchanting woman without sex. Beautiful women, we are so dazzled by the outside that we never make it inside. Marriage is […]
December 17, 2009
the above question(title) crossed my mind as I listened to an edition of Sharing Life Issues with Chaz B over the week. A lady had called in, “talk, talk, talk talk, talk, talk”. Chaz then asked her if she had a man….etc. She said she was still waiting “to be found”. This is how my […]
November 30, 2009
Girl, you are in love with him, and you don’t know why? My guy, you are in love with her and yet you don’t know why? Should loving someone have a reason? No: I’m of the opinion that such a love isn’t genuine when he’s able to explain why he loves her; when she can […]
October 21, 2009
45 Million Nigerians Not MarriedOctober 20, 2009 By Paul Dada A total of 45,437,673 Nigerians have never been married in their lives. This is another report by the National Population Commission, and it is based on the 2006 nationwide population and Housing Census recently released. The same report says828, 056 are separated, 692,910 are divorced […]
October 14, 2009
The above picture is sourced from this article on PM News. I would rather not dwell on details of infidelity of the couple accusing each other, but this prompts some thoughts. In Nigeria, at least from my own observation, information etc., the various levels of marriage are: Introduction – families of couples get to know each […]
October 13, 2009
“UNHOLY Matrimony” that was the title of the email in my box this morning: Questions that stink: what are ladies doing in the above pictures as flower girls and friends of the he-bride? is Love so sick that tears would role down the eyes of a man as he proclaims Love for another man? […]
September 16, 2009
When a mom of four gets murdered by her own husband because she ‘upgraded’ or rather ‘downgraded’, her Facebook profile status from ‘Married’ to ‘Single’,
September 7, 2009
I believe that the words FALLING IN LOVE and FALLING OUT OF LOVE are more than just mere reality. See, the best of couples who have been IN LOVE before have ended up falling / being out of love with the same person they were once head over heels in love with. This makes me wonder what kind of feeling […]
August 25, 2009
Question: can Love and Hate be of Equal measure?
August 21, 2009
Obasanjo RemarriesBy Kemi Akinyemi Four years after the death of his wife, Stella, former President Olusegun Obasanjo has finally re-married. The elder statesman now lives with his new wife at his hilltop mansion in GRA, Abeokuta, Ogun State. OBJ’s new wife, Mama Funso, as she is popularly called, is one of the numerous women who […]
August 18, 2009
This story is funny, but quite instructive: Man To Divorce Wife For Denying Him SexAugust 17, 2009 By Cyriacus Izuekwe For denying him sex for the past five years, an embattled husband, Olaniyi Daramola, has gone to the Igando Customary Court, Lagos seeking the dissolution of his 29-year old marriage to his wife, Modupe. Olaniyi, […]
August 13, 2009
Golden rules for finding your life partner by Dov Heller, M.A. When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner, no one wants to make a mistake. Yet, with a divorce rate of close to 50%, it appears that many are making serious mistakes in their approach to finding Mr./Miss. Right! If […]
August 13, 2009
I have a question, the answer of which I know would vary. Here: what is the difference between loving to hate and hating to love. Do these two statements have the same meaning?: 1) I Love to Hate you, 2) I Hate to Love you Question: if your answer is “Yes, the statements mean the […]
August 5, 2009
This is the first thing I got this(below) in my mail this morning. Very disturbing in deed. Viewer discretion is advised. (nude pics) ======== Any woman, clever or not” This intolerable and brazen inpudence is off mark, totally off mark, and remains condemned both on earth and in heaven. Both are married, you said… and […]
June 23, 2009
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